5/15/2013

Preloved Diapers: Selling Off Your Stash


Have Preloved Diapers You Want to Sell? We have some tips for you!

Cloth diapers are an investment, and one perk is that they have resale value! You took good care of the diapers and are ready to send them on to their new home. And now you are wondering, how on earth to start the process? Read on! This post covers the where, who and how behind selling your stash. 

A note – this is crazy detailed, definitely longer than I expected. But all the information is pertinent. Don’t get overwhelmed. I tried to include everything I get asked, and much may not apply to you.

First, Where To Sell?
-       Local Audience
o   Craig’s List
o   Local Facebook Cloth Diapering Group
-       Online Audience
o   eBay
o   Buy/Sell/Trade (B/S/T) Groups on Facebook - there are a TON, from brand-specific to price-specific and more
o   Cloth Diapering websites/chat boards – Babycenter, Diaperswappers, Hyena Cart’s Spots Corner
-       How to decide? Depending on what you are selling, one or more of the above sites likely will be the best option for you. How to know?
o   How ‘hard to find’ (‘HTF’) or abundant are the items you are selling? Selling diapers is an excellent example of basic supply and demand. Know your audience and market - the more abundant an item, the more you need to be . Have something really HTF? Consider auctioning the item to try to maximize your sale. 
-       Also, decide the legwork you want to put in -
o   Want it all gone in a quick and painless way (meaning, no trips to the post office, no Paypal payments to deal with, etc)? Use Craig’s List and deal only in person. Price it all as a lot, and price competitively.
o   Want to make the max dollar? Try several sites. Brand-specific B/S/T pages will give you the most focused audience. If you are selling a hard-to-find print or color, maybe retired a couple of years ago, people on these boards are looking for that item!! But you will have more legwork (negotiating price, arranging payment, shipping).
-       Selling Etiquette (more on this below under ‘Be a Good Seller’)
o   Be sure to read a site’s selling rules before posting your items. Some require prior selling feedback (e.g. Diaperswappers), while others will have specific requirements where and how you should post photos.


Getting Your Listing Up
-       Photograph and describe the items well. Including a lot of information builds buyer confidence and protects you in the case the buyer has issues with the diaper(s) upon receipt.
-       What to cover in your listing?
o   Describe each diaper by its full name (avoid abbreviations, many reading these listings are still learning terminology and all the brands and options out there) – e.g. BG4.0 Snaps-Zinnia written out bumGenius 4.0 One-Size Pocket with Snap Closure in Zinnia
o   Condition (this can be very subjective, which is why it is important to stipulate the following information, and include good photographs)
o   How were diapers washed and dried? Detergent, additives, line-dried, occasionally machine dried?
o   Any flaws or issues with the diapers? 
o   Used in a large rotation? Used only for a few months? Washed but never used? 
o   Will you take offers? Prices Firm? Discounts for buying in lots?
o   Inserts included with Pocket diapers?
o   If you are selling online, include what their purchase includes (Delivery Confirmation? Insurance? Signature confirmation?).
o   Will you ship outside your country? (See more on this under ‘Protect Yourself as a Seller’) 

How to Price
-       Price is dictated both by the condition and how hard to find an item is
-       For most readily-available items, here is a general rule of thumb - 
-       Excellent Used Condition (‘EUC’) 80% of the original retail
-       Very Good Used Condition (‘VGUC’) 70-85% 
-       Good Used Condition (‘GUC’) 50-70% 
-       Well Loved 25%+  
(these metrics are quite subjective - scroll around the forum you are considering to figure out what their 'EUC' item looks like - in general - EUC means almost like new, VGUC is the average 6mo stash, and GUC is anything beyond there. Well-loved refers to diapers that need a good dose of TLC to be useable)


Be A Good Seller
-       Be Honest – don’t hide anything in the listing
-       Communicate quickly and succinctly with your buyer. When relevant, include reply times in your listing (e.g. ‘I am only at the computer in the evenings, and will reply to any inquiries then.’)
-       Ship the items in the manner stated (first class, priority) and in a timely fashion – provide the DC# to the purchaser (more on DC# below)


Protect Yourself as a Seller
-       Be upfront in your listing – do not try to gloss over any flaws or issues with the diapers, this only creates issues for yourself further down the road
-       Tracking Information/Delivery Confirmation (this term changed recently – you’ll here it referred to several ways – most often you’ll see the abbreviation ‘DC#’): this is a number the post office assigns your package – you must request for first class packages, and will be a small fee; priority package pricing should include this, but be sure to ask at the counter as I’ve had a few people comment they didn’t get the # from the counter (it should also appear on your receipt). Why DC#? This will show where the package is en route, and also show when delivered.
-       So why consider insurance and signature confirmation? Insurance will protect you if the package goes missing en route. Signature confirmation is especially powerful – this proves the package got in the recipient’s hands. Did you know? A buyer can file a claim with Paypal that they never received the package, even if the DC# shows it was delivered, and Paypal almost always sides with the buyer! Meaning, you are out the money they originally sent you (yes, incredibly frustrating!). Hence, signature confirmation!
-       International Shipping: when shipping internationally, you only get a DC# if you upgrade the package to priority - first class shipping does not have the option to add DC#. And priority shipping is expensive! Unless you already have a trusted relationship with the person on the other end of the package, I don’t like international shipping. Too many variables in the postal systems, not to mention zero proof to show whether the package was ever received.


Closing Thoughts
-       In general, the more behind-the-scenes effort you put in to selling, the better the price you will get. For example - sunning out stains, creating nice, detailed listings with good photographs versus a quick somewhat-blurry photo on Craig’s List with a rushed description – you can guess which of those two listings is going to capture more attention
-       ‘Buy, Sell, Trade’ – I am a big proponent of the first two – buy and sell as you need. Trading, eh, I’m much less a fan. There are just so, so many variables. The only time I will endorse a trade is in-person: each person brings their item, they agree, they complete the deal. Two online horror stories experienced by friends:
o   Online, you establish the trade, no payment is exchanged, and each party agrees to mail. What happens when one party mails her/his half of the trade, but their other side does not? Typically Paypal, as the payment processor, acts an intermediary between buyer and seller. However here there isn’t any way to financially claim your possession back. You can still file feedback with the online site on which the trade was arranged, but that’s about it.
o   I’ve also heard stories of people arranging a trade during which the first person mails their item while the other person does not. Recipient waits to get the item, then claims it was not what was stated, and demands to cancel the trade, saying she will not pay to return as the item was ‘not as described’ (when in reality, buyer’s remorse is the only thing at play). The shipper then has to decide if she wants the item back, and now pays to ship again!
o   In either of these scenarios, the price of listing the item outright on a ‘sell’ page, then ‘buying’ the item from the original buyer, is much more conservative and, in my opinion, the more prudent way to go.
-       Should you Sell?
o   Good question, right? Be sure to figure out the price of shipping when deciding if you wish to sell, and also ask yourself if the item has a second life beyond the diapering days.
§   Prefolds and Flats are very dense, and cost a lot to ship. They make great cleaning rags and last for years and years. I always highly recommend keeping both of these items and instead incorporate into other areas of the home.
§  While light and inexpensive to ship, both Cloth Wipes and Wet Bags are items handy to have far past diapering. Cloth wipes make great rags for small hands, and Wet Bags are great for travel, the pool or the gym.
§  Microfiber inserts? Again, pretty expensive to ship. These are a greener option for your Swiffer disposable inserts – wash and reuse.

5/03/2013

Attn: Locals! Mother's Day Giveaway!

Mother's Day is nearly here, and we want to celebrate those very special women in your lives and, of course, YOU! Motherhood is the most uniquely challenging and blessed time I've ever had, and there aren't words to truly say how special Mother's Day is to me.

To celebrate this special day, we've partnered with several local businesses to bring you some fabulous prizes. And several of these businesses are mom-run, just like IBB! We couldn't love that more! 

What's Up For Grabs?
  • Pamper Mom Basket from 5B & Co. Candlemakers - hand-poured candles made right here in Brookside, just a few blocks from the store. Next time you are in the area, please stop by! Their store smells positively heavenly! an $80 value congratulations Marjorie Power
  • Two 31 Bags from Kyndal Costello, Independent Consultant - these bags need no introduction, I'm fairly certain. And perhaps my favorite thing, they make it easy to get organized. I love, love things all organized in neat little rows. Yup. And they are pretty. Organizing Utility Tote a $30 value congratulations Kathleen McCabe & Insulated Lunch Tote $18 Value congratulations Erin Hiser
  • $50 Gift Certificate to Drunken Fish - hello, mom's night out! Husband, girlfriend, doesn't matter who you bring, it is sure to be delicious! congratulations Crystal MacMillan
  • It Works Wrap and Greens Sample Pack from Jennifer Patterson, Independent Consultant - wrap it up! For those who have always been curious how these things work, now the chance to give it a whirl! a $30 value congratulations Jessica Warlick
  • Birth Photography Session from Olive Leaf Photography - for yourself or gift to an expecting friend. Ali's eye for quietly capturing those most precious of moments is amazing. Head over to her Facebook page to check out her portfolio. a $350 value congratulations Alexis Falcon
  • Jamberry Nail Wraps from Jamberry Nails consultant Jennifer Novogoratz - nothing like a manicure that lasts for weeks. Now that speaks to my busier-than-busy schedule! And the designs are crazy fun. Bonus! a $30 value congratulations Tiffany Haning
  • $50 Gift Certificate to The Fiddly Fig florist - located just down the street from the store! They deliver all over the Kansas City area, and offer a wide variety of gifts, in addition to their floral arrangements! Check out their Mother's Day offerings here. congratulations Keli Perkins
  • Kelly 
And Itsy Bitsy Bums is throwing in some prizes as well!
  • Delish Gift Set - one bottle of lotion, one bottle of shampoo and body wash and one delish yum-bum-butter to go. You pick the scent(s). Delish lives up to its name, promising to pamper you in those (hopefully) few quiet minutes you get in the bath. a $34.97 value congratulations Ellen Short
  • 25% off a Carrier Coupon - that's right - take 25% off the carrier of your choice. congratulations Chanda Wilson
  • Chewbeads Jane Necklace - entertain a distracted nurser, or simply dress up your mom-style. No need to have a teething baby to enjoy this necklace! Check out all the Chewbeads options here. a $29.50 value congratulations Alanah Tripp
  • $20 IBB Gift Certificate - whatever your heart desires. ♥ ♥ ♥ congratulations Jessica Williams

How to Win?
  • No purchase necessary!
  • Visit the store between May 4th and May 11th (once, twice, up to all five days we are open, you pick! check our hours here) and throw your name in the hat. Limit one entry per family per day.
  • We will draw winners May 14th and drop you an email to arrange how we'll get your prize to you! 
  • Cheaters never prosper, and if we catch any un-IBB-like behavior it will void your entries. 

 

4/24/2013

The Inside Scoop! The Skinny on Laundry

I don't know if you know this, but there is a lady over at Bummis who I like to call the cloth diaper laundry whisperer. Seriously, she knows her stuff inside and out, and I often say I wish I could bottle her knowledge up! So everyone, please join me in saying hello to Shirley (hello Shirley!).

We know so many of our customers struggle with hard water conditions. And the minerals in hard water can lead to premature wear and tear on diapers. Short of installing a water softener, there isn't much that can be permanently done to affect your water. If you do want a trick to combat those pesky minerals - check out Calgon (look for it at your grocer's). Calgon, added to the wash cycle, will bind to the minerals and help your detergent work more efficiently. There will still be some mineral deposits from the rinse cycle, but not nearly as many.

Did you know there are other ways you can help your diapers live a long and happy life? Check out these four Red Flags.

Cloth Diaper Laundry Routine Red Flags:
  • Diaper Laundry Delay - Waiting to wash too long between laundry days - the microbes will start to eat the natural fibers - optimal timing is to wash every other day. 
  • Bleach - Oxygen (aka Oxiclean and its like), chlorine or otherwise - weakens fibers. Did you also know? Oxygen bleach not thoroughly rinsed out will again weaken fibers once the diapers are put in the dryer.
  • Heavy Agitation - The more the fibers rub against each other, the more weakening will occur. Avoid the 'heavy agitation' cycle on your machine. 
  • Overdrying - In other words, drying the fibers past the point where there isn't any moisture left to come out. Try to line dry when possible. And, if you will use the dryer, use a low heat setting and remove diapers as soon as they are dry.
Just one of the above will cause diapers to wear out before their time (along with the usual suspects: soaking, too high of heat in the washer/dryer). Two, three or all four of the above? Yes, your diapers are going to look old far before their time.


 

4/19/2013

Belated News: Peachy Green!

Peachy Green News!

If you've ever had a chance to flip through the blog, or been around for a while, you likely know my love of Peachy Green diapers runs deep. Really deep. Like, I'll tell anyone who will listen deep. Read more on the deep-seated love here

Well, in mid-2012 we started to have conversations about possibly acquiring Peachy Green (!!!) and by Christmas it was all figured out. To sit on the news for almost three months until the official acquisition date of March 20th was terribly hard. Just ask the ladies who work at our shop - I practically stopped talking about Peachy Green completely. I was so afraid I was going to spill the beans (promise to anyone who has told me a secret, I am an amazing secret keeper when they are others' secrets - my own - well I get a really funny guilty/fish-face/giggling-thing and it just deteriorates from there until I spill, so I just avoid the subject instead).

So it is official, Itsy Bitsy Bums now owns a diaper brand. A long-time goal realized. Having worked in sourcing, and fashion, and diapers, it really brings all my worlds together! 

What is means?

Party with US!
A few spots online you might want to check out:
Peachy Green Diapers Facebook don't miss the photo contest on now through April 25th!
The Peaches a spot to hang out with fellow Peachy Green addicts

Dawn, Original Lady Behind Peachy Green
Dawn is still living in St Louis and works on her other business, Diaper Sewing Supplies. For a long time Peachy Green and DSS existed side-by-side, so that is why you'll see some familiar prints over there. If you know (or are) a home-sewer, check out what she has to offer! She is a wealth of knowledge when it comes to these materials.

The Sewing Facility
Located in central MO (convenient, no? halfway between Dawn and IBB), will remain the same. For those who have asked if I'll be sewing the diapers, first, you are too kind. I have no domestic skills to speak of. Also of note, Dawn has been using this facility since 2008, so the brand has long roots with these sewers! We had a chance to tour the facility, and I'm so impressed with their production.

The Patterns
We are keeping all of the Peachy Green designs and adding some more! Stay tuned for what is to come. We have heard your requests and have some ideas of our own up our sleeves.

Learning Curve
At the shop, when demo'ing Peachy Green, I'd often say: 'One thing that Dawn does so well...' in reference to the trim fit, or how the leg casings are sewn, etc. And now my employees will interrupt with an 'ahem ::throat clear:: ahem Abby, what you do so well.' LOL. Still learning! These diapers are still Dawn's diaper in design, but it now has the Abby stamp on it as well.

Fabulous Retailers
Some have asked if we'll be bringing PG in house as a private brand. Nope! We have fabulous retailers all over the world (yes, the Peachy Green love is worldwide!). Once production gets up and running with the next collection, we will be accepting more wholesale accounts.

Warranty
We will be handling all warranty claims. If there are any issues, please contact us at peachygreendiapers at gmail dot com. We are working hard to make sure nothing is lost in the transition, and please bear with us through these growing pains. If you have any questions about your diaper, please contact us and we will get it figured out!

Website
Right now the Peachy Green website is still the same, if you've ever poked around over there. Over the next weeks we will be transitioning it to a new platform. Ideally these changes will be barely noticeable from your end, but if the site suddenly has gone MIA, don't worry! The diapers are still there, just floating suspended in the interwebz.

If there is anything I missed, feel free to email me at peachygreendiapers at gmail dot com. A note - this is a temporary address as we get our new website site up. Once that is done we'll have a more official means for contact.


#gettingtoknowIBB

fair warning - this post is going to get very introspective, feel free to skip over if you prefer the fluffier side of Itsy Bitsy Bums

#gettingtoknowIBB: this is the hashtag on several of my Instagram posts these days - aka - a way to get to know IBB outside of just our diapering moments. 

#fibromyalgiastinks: this is the other hashtag you will see from time to time - aka - my body is fighting itself.

#fibromyalgiastinks #gettingtoknowIBB #sbish #brookeside
 In reality, Fibromyalgia is just the tip of the iceberg. I've up to seven auto-immune issues on my list (health care professionals tend to listen to my medical history with wide eyes). To say it has been a very challenging six and a half years for me is kind of an understatement. Actually, I don't know if 'challenging' is even the appropriate word. I wish I could really list it out, without it seeming like I'm starting to write a thesaurus. An attempt? Challenging, interesting, exhausting, mind-numbing, soul-sucking, soul-searching, maddening, questioning, fulfilling, heartbreaking, core-shaking.... honestly, there aren't enough words, or even adequate words.

The quick version - October 2006 - I went from a perfectly healthy graduate student just starting my studies at the University of Kansas to a 26yo woman paralyzed in a hospital bed. Paralyzed. Just not the kind of thing you ever expect to experience in your life. (More on that here). But the paralysis was temporary, and I've since relearned to walk, talk and appear to be a normal person. Supposedly I'll still make a full recovery, the doctors say, but after almost seven years, it comes a point when you want to scream (upon initial diagnosis they said two years for a full recovery, though more recent research suggests five to ten years; come find me in 2016, I guess?).

Every single day I wake up trying to gauge what my day will be like. Good pain day? Bad pain day? How's the fatigue? If my daughter begs 'pick me up!,' can I? For every step forward, there are ten back: for every advance in my recovery, just when it seems like I'm on a roll, my body says 'haha, not so fast, sucker, take this.' And I'm left trying to figure things out all over again.

The last couple of years seemed to be on a pretty good upswing, slow and steady, slow and steady, getting better. Better to the point I felt like I could start committing to things outside of our home's four walls - I opened our storefront! I even bought a cloth diaper company - Peachy Green (yes, another blog post begging to be written!). And then my body said 'haha, hold it, lady.' And threw me the worst curveball I've had in a while. A long while.

For the last month I've returned to a point where my focus is basic care: shower (sitting on the floor because I cannot stand that long), manage the online business from bed (while my amazing team runs the physical side of things), trying to parent from the couch. I just sit here shaking my head at it. Seriously. I have to do this again? This cannot be happening, there is too much to not be able to work the usual 14-hour day.

But here's where it gets really introspective.

I'm still here. It could have been so much worse. As far as neurological issues get, GBS is kind of one the better options. I don't know how close to death I actually was, and I don't know that I really want to know, but it felt awfully close. I'm here to hold my daughter, to be with my husband, keep ticking off my goals from the very long list of what I want out of life. So the last month has kicked me in the rear. I just took twenty steps back, but I'm getting up. And I'm not going to let this hold me back. 


I've been back at my usual table at the coffee shop today, getting back to my usual 100wpm-self. It feels really, really, really good. To the point there aren't sufficient words to describe how much better today feels. Though, Wilson Phillips is belting 'Hold On' on my radio right now, and it seems to sum it up pretty well. 'Things will go your way, if you hold on for one more day.' My new anthem: keep holding on, keep putting one foot in front of the other, keep believing, and I will come out of this a stronger person.
 


 

4/15/2013

AppleCheeks Giveaway Details



It's an AppleCheeks Giveaway!

What? Not one but TWO AppleCheeks MicroTerry Starter Kits (each valued $115) are up for grabs

When? All AppleCheeks purchases now through April 30th - Two winners will be chosen at random (literally, at random.org) and announced on May 1st.

Who? Well your fabulous self, of course

How? Simple!
  • Spend $20 on AppleCheeks products and you are entered. 
Say what?
  • Yes, spend $40 and get two entries. 
  • Yes, spend $60 and get three entries. 
  • Yes... you get the idea.
  • In short, we'll take the dollar total of your order's AppleCheeks items, and divide that total by 20. Rounded down, that number gives you your total entries. Like examples? $68 worth of AppleCheeks gets you three entries. $99 worth of AppleCheeks gets you four entries - whereas $100 worth of AppleCheeks gets you five. We will not be fudging on this one. Our elves are already going to be very busy!


Fine Print and Other Important Info
  • This promo cannot be combined with any other specials or giveaways. 
  • You can order as many times as you like through the promo (and please do come back and see us when the promo has ended). But, orders will not be combined to bank additional entries. 
  • Itsy Bitsy Bums ships to United States (inc. APO) addresses only. 
  • Winners names' will be submitted to AppleCheeks who will shout your lucky-duck-ness from the rooftops, and they will also be shipping the prize to you.



 

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